Lifted or Lifting: What Four Friends on a Roof Teach Us About Marketplace Ministry

In brief

The four friends who tore through a roof in Mark 2. On the relational trust that makes the impossible reachable, and on knowing whether you are currently carrying the mat or lying on it.

There’s a scene in the Gospel of Mark that never fails to stop me in my tracks—and lately, it’s been whispering something deeper.

In Mark 2:1–12, we read about four men who bring their paralyzed friend to see Jesus. But the crowd is too thick. There’s no way through the door. So they innovate. They climb the roof, tear through the clay and thatch, and lower him right down in front of Jesus.

Most of us know how this ends: the man is forgiven and healed, and the crowd is amazed.

But let’s step back. What really made this miracle possible?

Faithful friends. Relational trust. Unshakable commitment. It wasn’t just about healing—it was about who was holding the mat and who was on it.

This story has been stirring something in me, especially as I reflect on marketplace ministry—that sacred space where faith meets real life, outside the church walls. Whether you’re an executive, an entrepreneur, a teacher, or a technician, you’ll find yourself on both sides of that mat at some point.

And the question is: do you have the right people around you—both to carry and to be carried?


Ministry in the Marketplace Isn’t a Solo Mission

The house where this miracle occurred wasn’t a synagogue. It was someone’s home, likely a center of hospitality and commerce in Capernaum. The healing didn’t happen during a worship service—it happened in the middle of everyday life.

And so does ours.

The marketplace is where most of us spend the bulk of our time. It’s where the pressures are real, the reputations are tested, and the witness of Christ is often quiet but steady. Ministry in these spaces isn’t about a title—it’s about availability and spiritual sensitivity.

But more than that, it’s about relationships.


The Power of Alignment: Who’s Holding Your Mat?

Let’s flip the perspective.

If you were the paralyzed man—unable to move, uncertain of how to get closer to hope—who would carry you?

Are your relationships formed deeply enough that someone would fight through the crowd, climb a roof, and tear through barriers to get you to Jesus?

This isn’t just about friendship. This is about spiritual alignment—do you have people in your circle who know where to take you when you’re too weak to walk there yourself?

In marketplace terms: when the pressure hits, do your peers point you toward performance metrics, or do they speak truth and prayer into your spirit? Do they know how to lift your name in a meeting and lift your burden in prayer?


The Other Side of the Mat: Are You Willing to Lift?

Sometimes we’re the one lying down. But often, we’re the one called to grab a corner.

Here’s what gets me: these four men aren’t named. We know nothing of their titles, social status, or training. What we know is this—they acted in faith, together. They were committed to someone else's breakthrough, not their own spotlight.

Marketplace ministry requires this kind of selflessness. It’s in the quiet emails of encouragement, the integrity shown under pressure, the willingness to pray in private for a colleague who’s struggling. Sometimes it’s even more costly—standing up when it’s unpopular, or taking a hit for the sake of someone else’s future.

But here's the beauty: Jesus saw their faith. “When Jesus saw their faith, He said to the paralyzed man, ‘Son, your sins are forgiven.’” (Mark 2:5)

Not just the man’s faith. The group’s faith. Your faith can move someone else into healing.


Lifting, Carried, and the Crowd

One more thing. The whole room saw this unfold. The man walked out. People were amazed. And God was glorified.

Marketplace ministry isn’t flashy—but when it’s faithful, it’s deeply visible. People notice who lifts. They notice who carries peace in chaos, who refuses to gossip, who leads with grace. You don’t need to preach to be heard. You just need to live it consistently.


Final Reflection

The truth is, we’ll all take turns in this story.

Some seasons, we’re the one needing to be carried. In others, we’re the one climbing the roof. And sometimes, we’re the ones standing in the crowd, watching God do something we never expected.

But no matter where we find ourselves, we need the right people in our corner. Not just those who are willing to lift—but those who know where to lift us toward.

So let me ask you:

  • Who are you carrying right now?
  • And who would carry you if your strength gave out?

Choose your circle wisely. Be the kind of friend who doesn’t just show up with sympathy, but with a strategy to get someone to Jesus. And trust that when you’re the one on the mat, He’ll send lifters with ropes strong enough to carry you through the roof.


Let’s lift each other well.

— Dr. Doug

About the author. Douglass P. Smith, Ph.D., PMP, is Professor of the Practice in project management at the University of Kansas and a licensed minister in Kansas City, Kansas. More about Dr. Smith.

First published on LinkedIn, August 6, 2025. View the original.

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